‘6 Automated mindset- checklist’

‘Neutralisation’ - 28th October 2020


Father figure missing dynamism - 6 Automated mindset- checklist (the narcissist )


1. Do they care or respect your personality?


2. Or, do they care about you as a resource?


3. Do they listen to you and respect your opinion, even that is a different point of view from theirs?


4. Do they get emotional and abusive if you say something different from their point of view?


5. Do they treat you the same way when you are alone with him/her, as you are with him in front of others?


6. the last one is so simple, they wish your happiness? Though, you are responsible for your own happiness by oneself. So do they. Their daily mood is not depending on you. Your daily mood is not depending on them. 


Being aware of who accepts you ‘unconditionally’, would secure your healthy environment. Close your eyes, and try to feel the energy, then pick up how you feel toward the particular person, if you feel ‘fear’, then leave.


As much as we have baggage within our unconscious psyche, so do them. Energy shows everything. Take care of your heart. Take care of your kindness. Take care of your health and energy.


‘We call on the Angel of Repose to create balance in our schedules, with time for fun, time to relax, and time to enjoy ourselves. Taking time for ourselves creates inner harmony and peace of mind. And knowing we are worthy and deserving of peace and harmony lets us draw a self-preserving boundary so that work and pleasure are balanced. Rest gives us the opportunity to focus on the goals that bring peace to the spirit and repose to the body.’ - Ambika Wauters


Boundary coaching session - Tanaka- method / NLP

Intention-orientated, to get the result. This is the key. The key to getting the result.

Even you might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you will see over the course that you would create your own place of the light, to be yourself, to be heard.

Fears that installed by others will be subsided. You will see through life in a better version of the perception, without being brainwashed by other people’s agendas.

Standing up on your two feet. That is what you will achieve. 

If you are interested, contact me here for the first free counseling session to see if I could support you. 


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‘Between the given social norms’ - 28th October 2020

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