‘Being comfortable with your own skin’
‘The circulation of the community’ - 28th November 2020
What does it mean by being ‘at home’? Where exactly do you feel comfortable with your own skin?
Though, being ‘comfortable’ is a tricky word, as I feel a kind of ‘being comfortable’ meaning in a position without any growth, sort to speak.
Where exactly you could show your ‘true color’? Or being authentic with yourself?
I wonder if, there are any differences in being a foreigner would be better to show your true color?
Or being in the locality where you were born would show more likely of who you really are?
My grandmother said to me before I left for England at 20, ‘The more further you go, the more you would grow. you did the right thing. With your character, you are not the person who stayed long nearby your parents. Be independent, and explore as far as you can.’
On the other hand, I saw more than a few people who seemed to change the characters as soon as they went back to their own countries. Rather than having changed, is it the original appearance or awakening to reality? This may be a response from the instinct to adapt to the environment, but I think that there is a state that is said to be one’s own or one’s own axis in a place that goes beyond such superficial responses.
The essential thing may not change. It just changes the ‘reaction’ to the environment. You can’t see it unless you see it over a long period of time.
Boundary coaching session - Tanaka- method / NLP
Intention-orientated, to get the result. This is the key. The key to getting the result.
Even you might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you will see over the course that you would create your own place of the light, to be yourself, to be heard.
Fears that installed by others will be subsided. You will see through life in a better version of the perception, without being brainwashed by other people’s agendas.
Standing up on your two feet. That is what you will achieve.
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‘The vocalising your experiences’ - 28th November 2020