‘In matters of the heart’ - 26th October 2020

Over time the truth would show itself. Somehow I didn’t see it at that time.

Behind the scenes of guilt.

I’m telling myself that I don’t need the ideology of sacrifice anymore. My son fell while rolling roller skates. A conversation with a kind-hearted elderly lady who rushed to him.

This elderly lady who has raised four children told me, ‘I also have four grown-up children,  I could only take care of each quarter. I apologized to each and every one of them after they became an adult. Only a quarter of love for each.’

I was amazed and moved by her humbleness.  An idea that shows sincerity to the children and apologizes in that way.

A feeling of guilt toward parents in childhood.  A feeling of guilt toward children as parents.

It is a flip of a coin for love?

At the same time, I remembered by writing it out in this way. A word my friend said when I and my son left my son’s other homeland, 

‘ Don’t put guilt in your heart. Guilt doesn’t produce anything positive’

I was messed up at the time, emotionally. I was full of guilt for my son.

I’m going to put that feeling to sleep. For any person. For children and for parents. I can feel that the field of vision is getting better little by little.

I think now. I wonder why I could endure the situation. I shouldn’t have been in that place from the start. I was saved.

 A habitual thinking process

We don’t even know, what sort of a habit of thinking we are holding until some issues coming up to question us. Only by interacting with others, we would get tested. Toward clarity in matters of the heart. An act of balancing out.　

Boundary coaching session - Tanaka- method / NLP

Intention-orientated, to get the result. This is the key. The key to getting the result.

Even you might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you will see over the course that you would create your own place of the light, to be yourself, to be heard.

Fears that installed by others will be subsided. You will see through life in a better version of the perception, without being brainwashed by other people’s agendas.

Standing up on your two feet. That is what you will achieve. 

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‘The clarity of the heart’ - 26th October 2020