‘The falling leaves on the water surface’ - 11th October 2020

Even nobody knows I know how much you made efforts for the first baby step then another. Though the walks that you made might shape very different from others, nobody has any right to judge or define you. 

Think of an elephant story. Some only remember his nose, some only remember his big ears, some only remember his fat short legs. If you show enough caring and opening up for the communication but if they don’t want to see your view, then leave. 

They probably would see not you, but only a fracture of themselves the way they want to see it. If they don’t listen to you then it’s not about you. It is about them. 

Perception. Some would only like to hang around with you when you are in a good shape and capable of giving. Giving their needs. Not your needs, but their needs.  Only want to indulge themselves instead of asking how you are. This is a tricky point. The expectation of giving. Oddly just the same patterns as if auto-piloted. Then what would you do when you are in need of a bit of receiving instead of one way giving? 

Or when your life is off-balanced? This is a tough one. People would start to show their true colors. It can be tough but please keep your eyes wide open. You would see who is a full circle of being conscious of good or bad (I am talking about your mental temperature, whatever shape you are at that time) without bringing their own ego on the table. Or, they might be only capable of showing their half-circle, as if their true intention is simply to satisfy their own ego by making you small. Then, you simply leave. 

You gave them enough ‘giving’. Be wide open for their needs. Especially someone who was not there for you when you were going through tough times, but only want to come back around when you are ready with giving. Those are simply opportunists and amazingly they have similar traits in them. You would see who is sincerely caring for you around these tough times. At a certain life stage, we would be outgrown from those empty relationships. 

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‘The reddish roots of the water plants’ - 11th October 2020