‘What makes me smile’ - 22nd October 2020

My grandmother lost my grandfather, her husband, to illness when my mother was three years old. So my grandmother was also a single mother and raised my mother and my mother’s brother,  two children. I heard this story from my grandmother over and over again.

‘Grandma, I’ve heard that story more than 10 times.’

Even I said so, she would always start with a laugh, which would make me happy, and I end up listening silently. My grandmother lived until she was 90 years old, and for the last decade or so, her dementia gradually began and she started to say vague things, but she seemed to enjoy talking these memories. It may have been a difficult experience at that time, though when she looked back at her old age, my grandmother accepted it as a funny story.

‘At that time, the men were wearing loincloths. So, there was something inspirational coming up in my mind, I decided to learn dressmaking and to make underwear pants.’ 

‘Try using it!’  When she put it up for sale starting from the neighbors and then through a word of mouth, it would have sold more and more. In a blink of an eye, she was able to earn enough to live for some time. Three of us to live, thanks to the underpants!’  My grandmother would always have laughed here.

Even now, a story that I remember when I was about to be bearish. A story that makes me laugh and be ready for going further on.

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Intention-orientated, to get the result. This is the key. The key to getting the result.

Even you might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you will see over the course that you would create your own place of the light, to be yourself, to be heard.

Fears that installed by others will be subsided. You will see through life in a better version of the perception, without being brainwashed by other people’s agendas.

Standing up on your two feet. That is what you will achieve. 

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‘The grandmother story’ - 22nd October 2020