‘The answer is in silence’ - 26th March 2021

I made a huge mistake because of my personality
in the past.

I had to make a major re-modelling of my personality,
or say, re-programming of my belief system.

In the past I was a kind of person who would
take other people’s feelings at the priority rather than expressing my own.
Some might have considered me as a passive selfless girl. Yes, I was not good
at insisting on my way, especially in front of someone who is good at
persuading others with words, or in any manners. I mean, generally it would
start from the tiny seed for making or breaking of the boundary of one’s acceptance.
To put the long story short, I guess, the first push or the second, not many
people are so much aware of the boundary, and we all do take others for granted
in some ways, too. So I am trying not to blame myself too much for it, however,
this self-analysis has awaken me in a great deal.

Yes, in the past, the boundary was in lack
of from my belief system.

I neglected to take my own feeling. So I
kind of collapsed.

I needed a long dialogue with myself for
years, in order to understand myself.

Through the creative act of Art, I learned
the importance of self-expression and the importance of the boundary in order
to make my standing role clear as how I would like myself to be.

Since the precious essence is in the
invisible area.

I hope my bubbling blogs will be of any
supports for those people who are confused about their roles in their lives, or
who are confused about how to express themselves, like myself in the past.  

Takeaway here is:

A situation in which one’s response or
choice changes depending on the choices made by others is a situation of being ‘swayed’.
You are on the other side’s agenda. Always keep in mind what YOU want to do.
Don’t leave yourself behind with your precious feelings.

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‘Surfing through the differences’ - 26th March 2021