‘What makes me smile’ - 22nd October 2020

My grandmother lost my grandfather, her husband, to illness when my mother was three years old. So my grandmother was also a single mother and raised my mother and my mother’s brother,  two children. I heard this story from my grandmother over and over again.

‘Grandma, I’ve heard that story more than 10 times.’

Even I said so, she would always start with a laugh, which would make me happy, and I end up listening silently. My grandmother lived until she was 90 years old, and for the last decade or so, her dementia gradually began and she started to say vague things, but she seemed to enjoy talking these memories. It may have been a difficult experience at that time, though when she looked back at her old age, my grandmother accepted it as a funny story.

‘At that time, the men were wearing loincloths. So, there was something inspirational coming up in my mind, I decided to learn dressmaking and to make underwear pants.’ 

‘Try using it!’  When she put it up for sale starting from the neighbors and then through a word of mouth, it would have sold more and more. In a blink of an eye, she was able to earn enough to live for some time. Three of us to live, thanks to the underpants!’  My grandmother would always have laughed here.

Even now, a story that I remember when I was about to be bearish. A story that makes me laugh and be ready for going further on.

Boundary coaching session - Tanaka- method / NLP

Intention-orientated, to get the result. This is the key. The key to getting the result.

Even you might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you will see over the course that you would create your own place of the light, to be yourself, to be heard.

Fears that installed by others will be subsided. You will see through life in a better version of the perception, without being brainwashed by other people’s agendas.

Standing up on your two feet. That is what you will achieve. 

If you are interested, contact me here for the first free counseling session to see if I could support you. 

A workshop `Time capsule` project is OPEN now!

If you are interested in, please check out the page `Time Capsule` 

I would love to get to know you a bit better, and explore your dreamscape!

I will be a listener for your story!

Please check out this page ’ memory-bank’ also for a question list, if you are interested in a session with me!

As some people have been asking me which platform I use for my website, I place the link here. This platform ‘Format’ has a good supportive team, who are almost 24 hours available and has been so helpful for me leading this far with their various advice and tips! I can confidently recommend you if you are interested in creating your new websites!

‘The grandmother story’ - 22nd October 2020

‘Balancing out #01’ - 21st October 2020

At worst times you would see the reality which would illuminate more than the face values.

It is so easy to hang around with almost anybody when you are in a good shape. Though we are always on the wave, nobody has only a good time or only a bad time. A big toast to those who have been supported you and trusted in you all the way through those ups and downs.

Nurturing of our logic sensible side, in order not to get caught by our emotional side.

In most of the cases, how the bully would pick on the bullied (Or, the oppressor and the oppressed, or the narcissist and the empath, all comes to the point of desiring of controlling others) is that how far they could press the emotional buttons. Exploited naivety. In order to detach, stay away from any negative and toxic circumstances.

‘Believing in detachment conserves energy and expands our faith in the good. Detachment allows us to trust life to see us through, and for the good to reveal.’ - Ambika Wauters

Boundary coaching session - Tanaka- method / NLP

Intention-orientated, to get the result. This is the key. The key to getting the result.

Even you might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you will see over the course that you would create your own place of the light, to be yourself, to be heard.

Fears that installed by others will be subsided. You will see through life in a better version of the perception, without being brainwashed by other people’s agendas.

Standing up on your two feet. That is what you will achieve. 

If you are interested, contact me here for the first free counseling session to see if I could support you. 

A workshop `Time capsule` project is OPEN now!

If you are interested in, please check out the page `Time Capsule` 

I would love to get to know you a bit better, and explore your dreamscape!

I will be a listener for your story!

Please check out this page ’ memory-bank’ also for a question list, if you are interested in a session with me!

As some people have been asking me which platform I use for my website, I place the link here. This platform ‘Format’ has a good supportive team, who are almost 24 hours available and has been so helpful for me leading this far with their various advice and tips! I can confidently recommend you if you are interested in creating your new websites!

‘Balancing out #02’ - 21st October 2020

‘The elk to sustain’ - 20th October 2020

‘For me, a workplace was a place to fit in’.

This word was still the one I remember the most. Originally from Tokyo, she got a job at a hotel at the Tokyo head office as a new graduate but was transferred to work at a resort hotel built in this rural area of ​​Hokkaido. It seems that not only her but also a few people from the head office were assigned to live up the hotel, but the hotel was already difficult to manage due to poor customer traffic.

Though having been initially a sales representative specialized in bridal, she was somehow sent to the accounting in a difficult state of management just because she came from the head office. It was already a fire truck with unpaid payments accumulated, and as soon as some money was put into the bank it had to be taken down immediately so that it would not be withdrawn. Under such circumstances, it was her job to distribute salary bags to employees. While grasping the family situation of each individual, giving priority to single mothers, if there is a working husband or wife, it may be a little late, etc. She needed a lot of mental concern. Her own salary was the last, and there were months when there was nothing left for herself.

‘How did you continue in such a situation? ‘

‘Well. When I thought about it now, it was obvious that it would not last. My bosses were also mentally exhausted, and they were yelling and taking out their frustration at us, but, even though they were such bosses, somehow I saw the softness in their weakness. I felt love for such a collective atmosphere.’

‘For me, a workplace was a place to fit in’. 

‘What? A place to fit in? Felt love?’

I never thought that a workplace could be a place to fit in. But, after all, I wonder if it’s to do with a strong bond with people who worked with her. I wondered if it was because she had a hard time or because of the original quality, yet it was obvious that her affectionateness was reflected like a mirror around her. 

Eventually, after going through the turmoil period of unemployment, she became an independent physiotherapist, running her studio herself. 

Boundary coaching session - Tanaka- method / NLP

Intention-orientated, to get the result. This is the key. The key to getting the result.

Even you might feel uncomfortable in the beginning, you will see over the course that you would create your own place of the light, to be yourself, to be heard.

Fears that installed by others will be subsided. You will see through the life in a better version of the perception, without being brainwashed by other people’s agendas.

Standing up on your two feet. That is what you will achieve. 

If you are interested, contact me here for the first free counseling session to see if I could support you. 

A workshop `Time capsule` project is OPEN now!

If you are interested in, please check out the page `Time Capsule` 

I would love to get to know you a bit better, and explore your dreamscape!

I will be a listener for your story!

Please check out this page ’ memory-bank’ also for a question list, if you are interested in a session with me!

As some people have been asking me which platform I use for my website, I place the link here. This platform ‘Format’ has a good supportive team, who are almost 24 hours available and has been so helpful for me leading this far with their various advice and tips! I can confidently recommend you if you are interested in creating your new websites!

‘The soft eyes of the elk’ - 20th October 2020